u can address this with mindfulness and adapting your habits all you want, but the twinge you’re addressing here feels specific.. here to tell you, its a two way street! if you’re feeling any prickles related to not being available enough for certain people, i encourage you to have a conversation with anyone this may concern. the best friendships are flexible, adaptive things and take many forms throughout their long lifecycle. maybe things are a little more drop-in / ebb and flow while you have this gig! that’s perfectly normal and okay<3
Dec 7, 2024
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...apply that as needed. With every new connection lies the inevitable goodbye.
But everyone in the world is a little like and unlike everyone else. There is a wonderful sense of learning in that, and seeing how the patchwork of their personalities are inspired/evolved/derived from others-though it can be tiring to keep at it, which has become the sign for me to take a break, be with myself etc etc.
Aug 8, 2024
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sometimes the most authentic way of showing up is honoring your fluidity. your mind and body are constantly changing. theres no reward for remaining the same.
Nov 4, 2024
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in friendships, in mood, in belief in self, in truly anything. if it’s not feeling sexy rn it’s gonna feel real good soon enough. and if it doesn’t…. not meant for u…..
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I am getting my third bachelors degree because I’m bored !
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