Agreed. i’ve had several friends like this- some in passing, some long term- throughout my life, and they’ve always been some of the most caring and amazing people I’ve known.
cerealamerika I love the idea that through life as you meet people you collect little pieces of them and you are a product of all you’ve connected/intertwined with 💗🌟
resonating as I begin to more fully, less fearfully embrace gender fluidity and cautiously re-engage w that which once confined me:
“Femininity is not exclusively female - whether you're male, female, non-binary, etc: it doesn’t matter. Accepting one’s inherent feminine qualities is to tear away and reject the old conditioning that femininity is weak, inferior, or other.
In truth, femininity is essential in humanity; it is the adaptive strength in what is soft, courage in emotional depth, the unyielding resilience and regrowth in the face of adversity, and true, knowing calm.” Chayson, A. (2019, April 23). Women of the world, embrace your femininity as your strength. Medium.
in my very unimportant opinion, too many adult women are obsessed with
“girlhood” and embracing a “girly” lifestyle and I can’t for the life of me understand why they aren’t embracing “womanhood.” are adult women simply afraid of what leaving girlhood behind would mean for them? is it the prospect of the added responsibility that comes from being an adult that keeps them attached to their younger years? or is it just the aesthetics of girlhood that keep them in that mindset? yes when we were girls the world was so open, so new, so mysterious. why should that have to change entirely with age? some women may have more lived experiences and aren’t as easily impressed or mystified by things as they were during girlhood, but i think thats all relative to perspective. there are still sensations, mysteries and first times after the age of 25 and even 45 and so on. shouldn’t we experience it through the lens of women who have already passed the trials of girlhood? maybe this is just another millennial problem.
Interesting to see what the brain is spouting out as soon as you realize you’re awake. Can be a time to plan or create for the day. Just seeing what appears.