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ins & outs / 2025

in  creating for fun — alone & w/friends sharing online without self judgement  flirting w/no expectation deactivating w/no reason intentional friendships community as a verb following my own timeline completing books mindful journaling collecting hobbies like shells straightforwardness  game nights  internal validation thoughtful approach to physical affection home cooked meals asking for favors  financial independence  multiple streams of income  healthy dose of delusion  intense eye contact  intentional dates  out over self indulgence in rest  non reciprocal relationships over explaining  overthinking shit that doesn’t require an overthought  self inflicted emotional sadism  frivolous spending  babying men — in the workplace & in friendships  keeping clothing items that have been unworn for months  random hookups  living paycheck to paycheck keeping the peace in toxic environments wishing ppl who did you wrong well after (in fact were not even gonna wish them anything) after hours 

@rayfulosunshine

Jan 23, 2025

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2025 IN’s and out’s

In: - shenanigans of sorts - embracing the bad aspects to ur music taste (i happen to LOVE “lips of an angel“) - sharing - caring - being happy - speaking ur mind (when appropriate) - cute pamper nights - a very good skincare routine - taking notes - weird shoes Out: - overthinking - being a snob - constant bed rotting - tardiness - being sad - oversharing to people u just met (please stop)))) - skipping lectures - giving lectures - judgement

@sashahomesick

Jan 11, 2025

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20/25

for some reason i think next year is gonna be great ins: - getting money - being able to save that money - creative workshopping... plotting... planning... developing... - playing to my strengths and accepting my limits - writing notes by hand - sticking to plans and seeing them through, short or long term - finding new tofu recipes to try - make more projects im proud of, more consistently - max chilling - dumb as hell slice of life anime - reading curriculum on time - hitting the theatres a few times a month at least - loving what i love.... unconditionally and without embarrassment.... - having FUN outs: - the fear of wasting my life the second i get time to relax and unwind - caffeine addiction (only gonna be drinking monster cuz its yummy instead) - creative jealousy - fast food - believing my own desires and interests are unimportant or not cared for - unstable work/life balances - greening out - overthinking what other people think about me

@matttt

Dec 22, 2024

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Starting over

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.” — Anaïs Nin This is uncharacteristically raw and personal, even for me, and pretty heavy! I know many of you have seen me posting through it and I feel safe to talk about it openly now that I’ve safely landed at the start of my new life. It’s honestly even a little bit embarrassing but I think it’s important to share. I’ve never publicly mentioned it on here, but I have a husband; as of Friday, we’d have been together for 11 years, and we’ve been married for 3 years as of 2/22. I realize now that I wanted to explore what I looked like outside of my relationship with him because I had lost that. This is why PI.FYI has been so meaningful to me as a space to express myself and connect with people—to rediscover my voice. I had been living a lie this entire time, to others but worst of all to myself. He’s been verbally and emotionally abusive, physically but without touching me, to the point that every day I spent with him I was in danger. I’ve been shrinking myself and walking on eggshells to avoid making him insecure and provoking his casual put-downs and fits of rage, while hanging on for dear life to the threads of good I could see. I’ve wanted so badly to leave, more than anything, but I felt like there was no way out and that this was just something I would need to endure indefinitely—but someone who is so very dear to me helped me see that I have wings to fly, not by acting as my savior but by reminding me of my own power. The emotional safety they built and the gentle care they showed me made me feel like I could open up to them. With their encouragement I was brave enough to tell the truth to my friends, my family, my boss, and they have received me with warm, loving and open arms and rallied to support and protect me. The financial and  logistical aspects were the most intimidating to me and it’s going to be tough for a while but I’m going to be better than okay! Now I’m opening up to you. This isn’t the only abuse I’ve suffered in my life, and my old therapist told me she believed it was my mission to share my strength and light with others to inspire them and show them that change is possible. I hope that by sharing this, I can reach even just one person who is going through something similar and show that they are not alone, and they are not weak. People with certain backgrounds may be more vulnerable to abuse, but it can happen to anyone. It thrives in darkness, shame, and isolation—and breaking that silence is the first step toward freedom. Leaving is the scariest thing I have ever done but I have so many angels around me, and I am endlessly grateful. Thank you for being here with me 💌

@taterhole

Mar 16, 2025

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

@taterhole

Feb 23, 2025

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Finally Quitting the job that you hate

Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅

@taterhole

Feb 27, 2025