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Ins:
* shooting delusionally high for my goals
* heat styling my hair
* further investing in friendships and other relationships
* long-term gratification
* vetting; divesting time and energy wisely
* top-level maslowian needs, third eye and crown chakra activation, etc
Outs: * giving myself too freely (Not in a sex way in an every other way way) * trying to fit square pegs into round holes (also not in a sex way in a metaphorical way) * dressing purposefully frumpy * being a huge bitch; paradoxically, also being too accommodating and understanding
Outs: * giving myself too freely (Not in a sex way in an every other way way) * trying to fit square pegs into round holes (also not in a sex way in a metaphorical way) * dressing purposefully frumpy * being a huge bitch; paradoxically, also being too accommodating and understanding
Dec 21, 2024
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đinÂ
creating for fun â alone & w/friends
sharing online without self judgementÂ
flirting w/no expectation
deactivating w/no reason
intentional friendships
community as a verb
following my own timeline
completing books
mindful journaling
collecting hobbies like shells
straightforwardnessÂ
game nightsÂ
internal validation
thoughtful approach to physical affection
home cooked meals
asking for favorsÂ
financial independenceÂ
multiple streams of incomeÂ
healthy dose of delusionÂ
intense eye contactÂ
intentional datesÂ
out
over self indulgence in restÂ
non reciprocal relationships
over explainingÂ
overthinking shit that doesnât require an overthoughtÂ
self inflicted emotional sadismÂ
frivolous spendingÂ
babying men â in the workplace & in friendshipsÂ
keeping clothing items that have been unworn for monthsÂ
random hookupsÂ
living paycheck to paycheck
keeping the peace in toxic environments
wishing ppl who did you wrong well after (in fact were not even gonna wish them anything)
after hoursÂ
Jan 23, 2025
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đ˘In:
- shenanigans of sorts
- embracing the bad aspects to ur music taste (i happen to LOVE âlips of an angelâ)
- sharing
- caring
- being happy
- speaking ur mind (when appropriate)
- cute pamper nights
- a very good skincare routine
- taking notes
- weird shoes
Out: - overthinking - being a snob - constant bed rotting - tardiness - being sad - oversharing to people u just met (please stop)))) - skipping lectures - giving lectures - judgement
Out: - overthinking - being a snob - constant bed rotting - tardiness - being sad - oversharing to people u just met (please stop)))) - skipping lectures - giving lectures - judgement
Jan 11, 2025
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đfor some reason i think next year is gonna be great
ins:
- getting money
- being able to save that money
- creative workshopping... plotting... planning... developing...
- playing to my strengths and accepting my limits
- writing notes by hand
- sticking to plans and seeing them through, short or long term
- finding new tofu recipes to try
- make more projects im proud of, more consistently
- max chilling
- dumb as hell slice of life anime
- reading curriculum on time
- hitting the theatres a few times a month at least
- loving what i love.... unconditionally and without embarrassment....
- having FUN
outs: - the fear of wasting my life the second i get time to relax and unwind - caffeine addiction (only gonna be drinking monster cuz its yummy instead) - creative jealousy - fast food - believing my own desires and interests are unimportant or not cared for - unstable work/life balances - greening out - overthinking what other people think about me
outs: - the fear of wasting my life the second i get time to relax and unwind - caffeine addiction (only gonna be drinking monster cuz its yummy instead) - creative jealousy - fast food - believing my own desires and interests are unimportant or not cared for - unstable work/life balances - greening out - overthinking what other people think about me
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It lends a reflective and wistful tone to written communications imoâŚ
Jul 10, 2025
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebodyâbe it a relative or one of my best friendsâwas to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too đ
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