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In:
Physical grounding
Simple vacations
Creativity
Driving more
Watching classic movies (30’s-60’s)
Full coverage insurance
Layered rugs
Rock songs with female vocalist
Game nights
Going with a flow that’s not mine
Themed dinner parties
Patterns
ROTH IRA
Using ingredients already in my kitchen
Car wash’s
Substack
Out:
Answering questions
Rushing
Explaining
Sugar
My phone
Overextending
People who don’t think enough
Crocs outside of work and leisure activities :(
Jan 1, 2025
Related Recs
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ins:
- feminist lit
- creative salads
- pastels
- slow movement
- handmade gifts
- museums
- downsizing
- silence
- snail mail
- Substack
- fresh pasta
- being bored
out:
- iPhone photography
- takeout
- television
- uncomfortable shoes
- being late
- Starbucks
- rugs
- social media
- fast fashion
Dec 28, 2024
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Ins
Romance
Being taken care of
Independence
Saving money
Listening to full albums
Books
Movie theater
Baked goods
Pilates
Flossing
Vitamins
Self kindness
Therapy
Dancing
Wine
Pj sets
The library
No makeup
At home coffee
Black coffee
Dating myself
Perfume
Outs
Messy car
Being the caregiver
Relying on men to make me feel good
Social media
Screen time over 3.5 hrs
Distracted watching
Ultra balancing meals
Self doubt
Being shy
Dating apps
Instagram reels
Lack of vitamin d
Jan 1, 2025
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INS/ trend forecast
-funk/disco music revival
-late 60s- early 80s style comeback
-red
-face masks
-peel off polaroids
-stripes & florals
-physical media, DVDs
-adventuring in your home town
-tortoiseshell pattern> cheetah/leopard
-medieval revival brought into the mainstream
-gold>silver
-shopping mall revival
-signet rings
-meditation
-having your own thoughts
-sport: climbing (outfits worn as everyday style too)
-handwritten recipes
-recording studios
-loungewear: grey varsity sweaters and black thongs
-honesty and kindness
-petitions and marches for things you believe in
-making the most of alone time
OUTS
-men wearing carabiners
-embarrassment
-people taking to me about their situationships (leave me alone pls! i don’t have advice)
-flat shoes (sambas/ballet flats)
-speaking too loudly
-smoking (& vaping)
-overconsumption
-letting the far right take over
-drinking at every event
-driving lessons (only until they go right)
(any more suggestions?!)
Jan 19, 2025
Top Recs from @2h2h99
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If all the good men are taken by the time I’m ready to possibly have one then okay?? because fortunately that’s not the end of my world. nothing about not having a husband worries me.
being older and single and HEALTHY is a win.
Maybe I’ll settle down maybe I won’t. I’ll be happy either way.
Feb 4, 2025
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I’m taking a dark shower (no lights or candles). A planet is being illuminated soooo bright rn it’s beautiful.
Steaming hot water to 34 degree weather because I’m going outside to see it better when I’m done.
The planet parade is coming soon. I’ll have to call out of work. I can’t miss it.
Jan 17, 2025