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I believe this is whatās going to motivate me to put in the self work. If I canāt keep promises Iāve made to myself, what I say to other people canāt reach its full impact.
Make a list for my days
Do whats on the list
Becauseeeee
I love myself
There was some sort of mental block but im working through it. Iām not lazy. I just couldnāt do the mundane things??
But I made the appointments and Iāve fully completed my laundry in one day.
Itās as simple as just getting it done. I can do it later but than itāll just never get done or I can put it on my day planner and get it done when I say I want to. Checking it off is satisfying.
Also not overloading my day with task is important.
Jan 17, 2025
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And then completing it. Applies to "I am a person who will cook themselves a nutritious meal" etc. Not 100% effective, but makes me feel deeply determined when the scheme works.
Mar 18, 2024
I love doing things to make the day easier for my future self. Self love baby. Ooo, it feels so nice. Ooo, it feels so good!
Mar 12, 2025
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That thing you walk by every day and think, āUgh, I need to take care of that.ā
And then you donāt take care of it, and then you walk by it again and think, āUgh, why didnāt I deal with that! I suck.ā
And then youāre depressed.
(Or is it just me?)
Well, next time say, āIām going to do this right now.ā
And then, donāt just move it somewhere closer to where it needs to go. If it needs to be in a box in the closet, take the box down and it the thing inside. Donāt put it on the shelf next to the box. Do it right.
I, for one, feel so much better about myself when things are taken care of.
Jan 15, 2025
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If all the good men are taken by the time Iām ready to possibly have one then okay?? because fortunately thatās not the end of my world. nothing about not having a husband worries me.
being older and single and HEALTHY is a win.
Maybe Iāll settle down maybe I wonāt. Iāll be happy either way.
Feb 4, 2025
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Iām taking a dark shower (no lights or candles). A planet is being illuminated soooo bright rn itās beautiful.
Steaming hot water to 34 degree weather because Iām going outside to see it better when Iām done.
The planet parade is coming soon. Iāll have to call out of work. I canāt miss it.
Jan 17, 2025