Itâs incredible how many people genuinely think they are boring. There have been so many times Iâve spoken with people and they confess that they think that they havenât done much with their life, or that they donât have much interesting to talk about, but itâs almost never the case.
From what I can tell, itâs often caused by a lack of knowing thyself. Or maybe a low self esteem? Iâve been through it too, and it is so so not true for anyone.
Youâve done so much living. Why do you feel like your story is not worth telling? I know youâve gone through some crazy shit once or twice. if you really havenât, whatâs stopping you from getting out there and creating stories to talk about? Start small! go to a coffee shop once a week. See if they have any clubs to join, and try that out! youâll be making memories in NO TIME.
If you have trouble finding meaningful/fun conversation, just remember that the effort must flow both ways. You are merely just working with what the other person is providing you, and if they arenât giving you anything to work with, itâs not your fault. You arenât boring, you are just around people who dont vibe with you. And thatâs okay! Not every person is going to be your specific kind of person. Plus, if you arenât having fun talking to them, why does it matter if they like you? the much cooler people who value your input are just around the corner. I promise.
One day youâll be able to shine your beautiful personality on someone who is equally as bright you are, you magnificent comet, you.
