it’s horrible when people just end relationships with no reason, i’ve been there. you will for sure spend lots of time thinking “why” or “what if…” but the main thing you need to remember is that it’s their issue, not yours. you did your best, loved, and now deserve to heal properly. go through the grief and grow with it, cry as much as you need and allow yourself to feel that sadness. however, unless you think it’s strictly necessary for your process, don’t reach out to them to ask why. sometimes the answer you’re seeking has already been given to you simply by their lack of explanation (and at some point even respect).
Feb 19, 2025
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as much as you can - allow yourself to feel the pain. don’t judge yourself for however you’re feeling. keep busy and devote time to yourself but forgive if sometimes you still gotta stay in and sob. build up a beautiful life while grieving at the same time - and eventually you will realize you’re now as fully engaged with joy, pleasure, & passion as you once were with heartbreak !!!
Mar 16, 2024
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my love and I parted ways a few months ago after our 5th anniversary. has truly been the hardest period of my entire life to slowly pick up the pieces and move on, a process that is nowhere near over even as much as I want it to be.
my biggest piece of advice is to surrender to the pain. don’t let yourself be drawn into anger and hatred, just let the crumbling happen. let the tears flow! talk to your friends about it over and over again. sit in silence with the people you love. fall asleep on the couch once in a while.
don’t bother with “why” — it’s a useless question, trust me.
Feb 20, 2025
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i don't know what happened, but i'm sorry. i think you cope by grieving and mourning. that's what i did. i journaled and cried and howled and screamed and rolled on the floor. i did this for an entire year. and it still wasn't enough. so i reached out to them like 4 days ago lol and it gave me the closure i so desperately needed. please please please remember to be kind to yourself and take care of yourself and show up for yourself even when it's the hardest thing to do. spend time with loved ones. do the things that you love. rediscover your passions. focus on you. treat yourself like the absolute g you are. remember who you are outside of this. it's so easy to lose yourself in this process of grieving. i believe in you. you can get through this <3
Jan 9, 2025
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talking to someone for a few days and being absolutely terrified that it'll go wrong again sucks but i'm giving myself the opportunity to love fr!!! or get lovebombed!!
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and 10 things i hate about you, probably. those movies with a 10 in their name really know their stuff
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feeling: perfectly imperfect...
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