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It's like I've been released from the shackles of obsession instantaneously and they start looking like npc ken dolls - they turn into background characters so fast...my mind clears them from its memory immediately and the sun is just so 🌞 afterwards the birds, the air, the earth - what a magical feeling
Shout out to the girlies who have explored enough to know what is and is not a good time, exercising your voice and not settling because it's "comfortable" in all other aspects is something i'm so proud of myself for
Feb 23, 2025
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I do not have to throw myself full force into a friendship
I do not have to give 100%
I can be just acquaintances if I want to
I can deny things I don't like doing
I can set boundaries without feeling bad
I can create relationships I actually enjoy
I can leave behind people who don't respect me
I can meet people halfway and not be expected more than that
I can be free to be tired, busy, needing alone time
I can respond later
I can be allowed to have friends without being a 24/7 hotline
but I'm also allowed to say hi at weird times of the day
I can do anything that works for both of us
I can have a relationship I feel real in without it consuming me
and you can too!!!!!
Apr 16, 2025
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I’ve been single for a year and a half now and have recently had a massive breakthrough with it all. I spent a while deeply brainwashed by the horrific dating advice on Tik Tok which stipulates things like “if the first date isn’t a dinner date then he basically views you as a saloon whore” or “unless you drop into your soft feminine energy, you deserve an entire life alone, you toothless witch.” I don’t want to do either of those things. What the fuck is soft feminine energy? I want to focus on work and make videos that make people laugh and write and spend time with friends and eat and drink wine (see above) without being haunted by the viral refrain “If he wanted to, he would.” Who cares? I like meeting guys out and about! Maybe grabbing drinks. Having crushes. Flirting. Enjoying them. But I will never again sit through a Tik Tok titled “subtle ways to make him addicted to you” or “how to become a high value woman who is a prize to be won.” ENOUGH.
Sep 1, 2023
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Sometimes I get caught up in wanting so badly for someone to like me, that I don’t even realize that actually I don’t like them lol, or that they don’t make me feel good. I’m on my self-preservation journey, and it is time to say some rhetorical goodbyes for the sake of my peace and sanity !!
Mar 12, 2025
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The entire algo is filled with rage baiting bots meant to make you feel disenfranchised and othered while it throws the worst content at you back to back to back - I got off the ride finally 🙌🏽 I stayed for so long because I felt like I was getting important information about the world but it's honestly edited crap meant to keep you scrolling. Comments filled with misogynoir, ableist, and xenophobic word vomit. Back to blogs and youtube vlogs - it honestly feels so amazing to not have that app there. So much time wasted and energy lost - happy to adjust what I consider connecting and being connected 😊
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Mar 23, 2025
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i didn't realize how much of my time was wasted on my phone - everything i was consuming was straight anxiety juice. pinterest is peaceful and i love it on here, i don't spend hours on either and it's a nice little check-in when i feel like it
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