I love a person who knows who they are and what they like and what they are good at, but also respects other people and is kind. I also have a dry sense of humor so people who can match that always get me. But this doesn't necessarily mean loud or outgoing, I have liked people who are and who are not.
I just feel like secure and confident is the hottest thing a person can be. Thoughtful and competent is a close second. People who can share the responsibility and help make a plan or make decisions. I don't know if it's just me but I feel like that's a rare quality, and it's nice to have someone be able and willing to put on the work to see you and have a good time.
Feb 26, 2025
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I like my teasing insults back and forth banter that I have with most my friends. We don't cross lines. I like sarcasm and being allowed to metaphorically bite. I am confident, I don't have many insecurities.
But still, reassurance is good. I like hearing that my friends think I'm clever or kind or funny. And sometimes I don't really know how to ask for that.
Feb 10, 2025
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someone honest in their passion, earnest and intentional in listening/speaking, can read me like a book and vice versa, someone i don't have to say anything to but who i never want to stop talking to, can overcome the fear of being venerable, and a freak to the core
visually i couldnt care tho i do have a thing about a good smile and teeth...gotta take care of em
bonus points if they also hate feta; great bonding opportunity + no likelihood of catchin strays mid post-meal make-out-sesh☝️
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I like a slight shyness but i also like slight confidence
Unique piercings or tattoos are really attractive, or if they do their make up like art and not generically (is that a word?)
Unique noses, too! Or when one tooth is missing or their teeth are crooked, i think thats attractive.
Raspy or soothing voices, when they speak calmly and at ease
I love when a person has big people word vocabulary and knows how to use it. intelligence is really attractive, and it's cute sometimes when they do it in a ☝️🤓 way. When they know more than 1 language, aswell
God, when they have "grandma" hobbies like crocheting or baking, maybe even reading (Using grandma really loosely in this context)
This could go on and on
Jul 10, 2024
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It's so lawless. You’ll see the weirdest things and no one will care. People are so unabashedly human here. Dead expressions, exhaustion, boredom. You’ll get a coffee, someone else will get a bloody mary, the time is irrelevant. Your priorities will be tested, everything costs at least three times as much as it should, it won’t matter. I love liminal spaces.
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