someone honest in their passion, earnest and intentional in listening/speaking, can read me like a book and vice versa, someone i don't have to say anything to but who i never want to stop talking to, can overcome the fear of being venerable, and a freak to the core
visually i couldnt care tho i do have a thing about a good smile and teeth...gotta take care of em
bonus points if they also hate feta; great bonding opportunity + no likelihood of catchin strays mid post-meal make-out-sesh☝️
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the feta thing happened before, i have kissing trauma now, i have cilantro soap gene for feta dont come @ me feta stans it tastes like a rotting corpse to me and besides toothbrush bristles is the only thing that triggers my gag reflex ( ✧≖ ͜ʖ≖)
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