I think I care very deeply. My care for other people consumes me and motivates my every day life. It’s the reason I’m pursuing the career I am, despite the economics of it all. I think it’s why I sometimes struggle in modern day dating. I don’t have a casual bone in my body — I care way too much, but I wouldn’t want it any other way. We have been socialized to not care about others more than we care about ourselves, and I fear that will be our downfall.
Mar 18, 2025

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so true!!!! it’s wonderful to care! thank you for sharing :)
Mar 18, 2025
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what career are you pursuing?
Mar 18, 2025
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@QUEENMISANDRIST I’m in law school and planning on working within public interest, probably in human rights or criminal justice reform :)
Mar 18, 2025

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