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It’s been almost a month and I’ve finally taken down her pictures from my walls. It’s such a confusing thing to know this person better than I know anything or anyone, and suddenly to be cut off from her. still, I’m so lucky to be surrounded by amazingly supportive and loving friends — I would be in a sorry state if not for them.
Mar 18, 2025
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if i were you, i'd keep the pictures. yeah, you're not together but the time you were together has made you who you are. Don't look at them and don't have them laying around, but keep them as a memory of that time of your life
Mar 21, 2025
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found this about a month late, and i'm not sure what the circumstances of your situation are, but i feel for you and thought i'd comment because i went through a similar situation about a year ago. my best friend of 5 years and i were very codependent, got into a sudden, blowout fight, and did not talk for months! it felt like a romantic breakup and i'd imagine you feel the same!
i'd say the biggest things that helped me deal and heal were 1. time and 2. somehow getting closure. by not communicating with her, i was ruminating on everything that went wrong and all the positive things i missed about our friendship. when we finally caught up, time had made both of us different people, and it was easier to see the reasons why we had stopped talking in the first place and why it might be for the better. enjoying and forming new friendships was also helpful, with people i was compatible with in different ways and fit in this new phase of my life. but i'm wishing you luck, losing a friend makes you feel lonely and rejected and in pain. but that feeling will pass
Feb 17, 2025
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my love and I parted ways a few months ago after our 5th anniversary. has truly been the hardest period of my entire life to slowly pick up the pieces and move on, a process that is nowhere near over even as much as I want it to be.
my biggest piece of advice is to surrender to the pain. don’t let yourself be drawn into anger and hatred, just let the crumbling happen. let the tears flow! talk to your friends about it over and over again. sit in silence with the people you love. fall asleep on the couch once in a while.
don’t bother with “why” — it’s a useless question, trust me.
Feb 20, 2025
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break ups suck ass, it's important to mourn the loss. This might not help you, but when i was broken up with, i told my self that i'm a boat. This boat is still, it's sat in the middle of the ocean (the unknown) and it's just bobbing up and down. It doesn't need to go anywhere, it doesn't need to know how it got there, it's just there. After time, you'll want to start getting some wind in the sails and aiming for land, and so one day, you'll start moving on.
I'm nearly 7 months from my break up and i still think about and of her everyday. It hurts but this is just the way i'm dealing with it. crying and journaling helped me!
May 14, 2025
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(ALSO I HAVE A DATE ON MONDAY)
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