you don’t need to refrigerate that stuff and it’s way more pleasurable at room temp imo. butter spreads and melts v nicely when you don’t have to put it on piping hot toast first!
My roommate immediately starts by spreading cold butter on her toast. This does not work, it is grating to watch how it affects the structural integrity of the toast. Just put a blob of butter on your toast, wait, let it soften a bit, and then start spreading. This is the only way to butter your toast.
i have two under two and i’ve never felt more vulnerable or in love with the world despite the calamities! i’ve never had more empathy or patience or compassion for all living things! i’m also so tired and hormonal rn so don’t make any rash decisions but so far it’s working for me ☆ ps. pregnancy and labor and delivery physically went very smoothly for me. i had freaky ppd the first time around but so far this time is just overwhelmingly wonderful?? results may vary.