I realize it is mostly men responding to this, and thank you for your input but my question was rhetorical and not meant as rage bait. Most men ARE intolerable, I stand by that, but I love the men in my life so please do not mistake my brazen question for an intolerance of the few good men there are<3333it was just something to finish my little checklist of things I had to do to create this account :3
I can’t keep getting advice that only applies to girls dating men… Girl we both deserve to be pursued sure… but if I’m waiting to be pursued, and she’s waiting to be pursued, — whos driving the effing car????
Engaging in things such as “fan wars” “ships” “fan gossip” is essentially engaging in politics without some of the ethical strain so long as you’re not actively harming anyone and just having discourse about something. It also tells me a lot about what a persons actual politics probably are.
