I think I care very deeply. My care for other people consumes me and motivates my every day life. Itās the reason Iām pursuing the career I am, despite the economics of it all. I think itās why I sometimes struggle in modern day dating. I donāt have a casual bone in my body ā I care way too much, but I wouldnāt want it any other way. We have been socialized to not care about others more than we care about ourselves, and I fear that will be our downfall.