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I mean this in the most positive and affirming way.. NOT EVERYTHING CAN, SHOULD OR WILL BE āRESOLVEDā and you will have to carry some weight in life. We all have some shit. The sooner you realize this fact the freer you will be I promise. My dad hates me too bruh like we need to buck up at some point ā¦ not every boo boo gets a bandaid
Mar 29, 2025
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āNot every boo boo gets a bandaidā š Incredible. I need this on a t-shirt from Zazzle.
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š§¶sounds like there's some rough history there
maybe a close relationship with your dad isn't in the cards, but for your own sake it may be beneficial to dig into the past with a trained professional and release as much baggage as you can
that way you don't have to carry that father pain into other relationships in the future
I found myself needing to do the same thing, not for the purpose of restoring relationship with my father, but that ended up being a positive side result
maybe a close relationship with your dad isn't in the cards, but for your own sake it may be beneficial to dig into the past with a trained professional and release as much baggage as you can
that way you don't have to carry that father pain into other relationships in the future
I found myself needing to do the same thing, not for the purpose of restoring relationship with my father, but that ended up being a positive side result
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Iām very open with the fact that I was in years of intense therapy.Ā Ā I still get tune ups if I need it.Ā Ā I do believe we all have core wounds weāre constantly working on.Ā Ā I also think Iāve grown to be a very healthy person.
I have deep, deep father wounds that are never going to fully heal.Ā Ā Iāve worked on it, and theyāre not bothersome most of the time.Ā Ā I recognize when itās triggered and work through it.Ā Ā I just realize Iām going to probably live with it forever, the hope is that it gets smaller and smaller.
I have a history of abusive relationships that Iāve worked really hard to heal from. Stuff from that typically only comes up during conflict, but Iām aware of it and work on it. Thankfully it comes up with people who love me and that has been so healing.
Going from hyper independence to interdependence and learning to be in process with others has been.. work. But worth it. Iāve always been incredibly hard on myself if I hurt people- itās always unintentional, but how dare I be a human who makes mistakes!!Ā Ā I still have to be extra kind to myself and talk myself off the ledge when this comes up.Ā Ā Funny that I found this meme just today lol
I have deep, deep father wounds that are never going to fully heal.Ā Ā Iāve worked on it, and theyāre not bothersome most of the time.Ā Ā I recognize when itās triggered and work through it.Ā Ā I just realize Iām going to probably live with it forever, the hope is that it gets smaller and smaller.
I have a history of abusive relationships that Iāve worked really hard to heal from. Stuff from that typically only comes up during conflict, but Iām aware of it and work on it. Thankfully it comes up with people who love me and that has been so healing.
Going from hyper independence to interdependence and learning to be in process with others has been.. work. But worth it. Iāve always been incredibly hard on myself if I hurt people- itās always unintentional, but how dare I be a human who makes mistakes!!Ā Ā I still have to be extra kind to myself and talk myself off the ledge when this comes up.Ā Ā Funny that I found this meme just today lol
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āļøyes these people are hurting and donāt currently have the tools to cope with their trauma, which is sad and worthy of compassion
but also
you didnāt deserve to be constantly subject to their toxic behaviors, and you cannot keep minimizing your own pain for the sake of the ārelationshipā or āhoping for the bestā as you white-knuckle through the trauma they caused
but also
you didnāt deserve to be constantly subject to their toxic behaviors, and you cannot keep minimizing your own pain for the sake of the ārelationshipā or āhoping for the bestā as you white-knuckle through the trauma they caused
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