We are all expressing ourselves according to the relevancy of our own water drank, food eaten, sleep had, life experienced, etc. That unpleasant occurrence was not personal unless explicitly stated! Roll off.
Not the watered down version to save the other person’s feelings. Not half of what you feel. Not the version that you know makes other people more comfortable. Not the version you wish was true. What you actually fucking feel. Terrifying! I know!