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say no

often I find that saying yes to something — like, in your case, "reading more," — starts by saying no to other stuff. I have no idea what should be on your "don't do" list, but when I want to say yes to a new, good thing I often make a point of saying no to: compulsive phone usage, wasting time online, etc. my approach to forming a new habit involves both parts: figuring out what I will do and getting clear on what I won't do.

@mattshawsome

Oct 18, 2024

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say yes to things you don't feel like you have energy for in the moment

Co-sign to all the rec's already given. What helps me is changing scenery. Getting outside for a walk. Going on a run. Writing/journaling at a coffee shop. Saying yes to social opportunities. Going to the movies. etc.

@lucius

Nov 25, 2024

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Saying no

really, you do not have to do everything. just say no from time to time

@matti

Feb 8, 2024

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Anti Rec: waking up before noon

waking up at 7am today has been a painfully dreadful existence, and i've only been awake for 52 minutes. How do people do this?

@Rattlesnake

6d ago

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i am ME

im 24, i am a sound designer. I have won awards for sound design. I have a 1st in a degree that included me to do sound designing. I like books and music and films and pictures and friends and my ex and sound designing sounds for my ears, and hopefully one day, your ears too. i also like my bed and listening to sounds. Did i mention sound?

@Rattlesnake

Feb 28, 2025

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Breaking the cycle

In the UK, it's Mother's Day today, and for the first time potentially in my entire life, i explicitly told my mum "I love you". Shit feels gooooooood :) i love ya ma, i tell ye, i loves ya

@Rattlesnake

Mar 30, 2025