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was in a bit of a pickle because i didn't know how to do something and the guide document my uni provides on how to do it is insanely convoluted, technical and opaque, so i asked someone hanging around on their phone and they helped me out!! they were so nice about them too bless, i would have panicked so bad if i didn't have someone to walk me through it. be a friendly stranger today, some incompetent anxious mess will be severely grateful !!
Apr 16, 2025
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I know we say it but like actually do it!!! needed to get to a blood test today so asked my band group chat and my friend came and picked me up, and his partner had given him a homemade cookie for sugar for after! we often see asking for help as an inconvenience but you get to hang out with your friend for a bit, who is that really inconveniencing?!
Oct 21, 2024
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i haven't been feeling great lately and i'm also trying to adjust to a medication that's making my life hell but i reached out to my doctor and i talked about it with my therapist and they are so kind it made my day. there's always a way of getting help somehow and that's what's giving me hope!
Apr 16, 2025
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Donβt worry, the person you ask will need your help one day too. and if not, you can pay it forward.
Feb 7, 2024
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i've been really into the idea of taking myself on little solo dates and being generally kinder to myself lately, i think i've been happier with myself recently than i have ever been (the joys of growing up, i guess). and the realisation that i have real adult money and free will and can spend it on whatever is fun! i've been going to more concerts and on little trips and i saw that this one comedy duo i've been seeing a lot on social media were doing a live recording of their podcast in glasgow later this month, and i booked a ticket! planning on taking the day to do a little walking tour of the city, check out a doughnut place someone recommended to me, find a cool looking bar and order myself a pretty cocktail and head to the show - just really make a day of it :)
i don't know, i guess i've been really leaning into the idea that of all the people in my life, i am the one i'll have to spend the most time with, and i've been learning to have more fun hanging out with myself, and i feel like i'm coming into my own a little which just makes me so happy <3 hang out with yourself more! life is short man
Mar 18, 2025
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i've been doing little things to make my life a little easier, like leaving a bottle of water, iron supplements and some belvita soft bakes right by my bed so i always have breakfast, water and iron in the morning, and keeping a very condensed set of skincare stuff right by my toothbrush - it might not be as effective as having more but getting myself to use a cleanser, moisturising sunscreen and vaseline every day has already made my skin feel so much better which has just gotten me more excited to do my routine every day. plus, getting body sprays and haircare stuff and just products in general that you really like the smell of is a game changer because now i get to smell like pineapples and caramel every day! it's such little things but it makes me happy and keeps me doing a routine of things that are good for me :))
Jan 30, 2025
i love wearing clothes with fun colours and comfy textures, i feel like it just makes you so much happier walking past mirrors! i got this handmade chunky rainbow sweater with this lovely criss-cross decorative stitching on the outside that makes it look fun and patchworked, and something about the colours just makes me so happy! same with dungarees, i can't believe i only recently picked up a pair because they really do make you feel like the plucky main characters from the books we read at age eleven ( ΛΆΛαΛΛ΅ )~β©β§β
Jan 9, 2025