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going on solo dates is therapeutic

Sometimes you just need to go on a city walk , solo date , get dolled up and wear your best outfit , go perfume shopping grab a croissant or a yummy sweet treat it’s my therapy and I always feel happy after and I love to write in my journal about the day or write in my Substack everything I did that day with my community

@irislily

Dec 22, 2024

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im going insane and its all good

i live and work in an extremely isolating field. most days are spent in solitude, reading, writing, and watching whatever i’m socially craving. i think something concrete, outside of my journal, might serve me in this period of total immersion in the self. today, i ran a 5k and cooked some very fucking yummy meals, though simple. :) nice!

@dailey

Sep 27, 2024

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being alone

is so nice. i've had a few days to myself this week, and it's made me realize how much energy i absorb from the people around me and the noise it creates when trying to listen to my own needs. more alone time from now on!

@milkbags

Mar 14, 2025

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WEEKLY DINNER PARTY

Having a regular community gathering makes it easier every time. Split costs and eat something yummy you wouldn’t usually make for just yourself! What a joy to cook and eat together!! Perfect opportunity to put your phones down and talk and listen. We do weekly themes, see medieval and Ancient Rome below.

@anka

Apr 18, 2025

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GOSPEL MUSIC

And singing in large groups :) (and my wonderful housemate leaving notes around the hallway)

@anka

Apr 16, 2025

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BUTCH FOR BUTCH EVERYTHING

nothing is better than racing to open doors for each other and splitting a NA beer. jingling chorus of keys on a ring.

@anka

Apr 16, 2025