I have stopped listening and reacting to people who can't speak with respect. They are yelling at you? laugh and leave. They are trying to hurt you? don't cry and leave, don't gift them a reaction, cry later with people you feel safe with or by yourelf. You know that, at the end of the day, they won't change your opinion so why would you waste energy in purposeless fights.

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