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even if the answer is no, the answer might’ve been yes and it doesn’t hurt to ask every once in a while if you can do something or have something. i feel like as people, we don’t ask others for anything because we’re scared of rejection and the word no. but the best way to get over that fear is to hear it more
4d ago
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Always ask. People want to say yes. And they will more than you would think.
Aug 28, 2024
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i have gotten a new fridge and a new stove from two different landlords this way - completely free of charge!! asking as an action opens the door for new connections and perspectives and is a much better alternative to feeling like you have to somehow assert your will on others to make your way through the world safely or successfully. it also is true that people love to share and talk about themselves, so asking is a great way to start out an interaction.
this sentiment is predicated upon the belief that people are good and want to help ! and that we can accomplish more together.
just thinking about this bc i called this antique shop and asked about an item i unfortunately left behind </3 but the person on the phone was more than happy to help, and my day is improved because 1) i tried and 2) i had a positive conversation with another person.
prescribing this as the cure to social anxiety for myself
Aug 10, 2024
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if you ask the question sometimes people say yes! sometimes they say no! but at least you know the answer!
Jun 17, 2024
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i think messy and frizzy curls are the way to go. i grew up with my wavy hair always being tangled and messy, but when i brushed them, they would get super frizzy and wouldn’t go down. i think instead of shaming people for them, saying they look ratty, and making them insecure, we should instead embrace them and acknowledge their natural and raw beauty
4d ago
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sustainable, affordable, and prevents books from being discarded in landfills like lots of items from the thrift are. Especially with how expensive books are becoming, it provides an opportunity for those who dont have access to libraries easily or like physical copies they can have, but cant bring themselves to spend so much on a book. They’re becoming luxuries instead of resources, and its sad
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it makes such a difference in attitude. I decided to dress up a little to make sure i do good and have a good day. Usually, i would be miserable but today i feel so great. i think looking good helps you feel and do good. its also just fun being able to experiment. i suggest that everyone tries it sometimes and see how it affects your day!!! have a good day everyone
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