Ask someone you know will know the answer; even though you can Google it, it’s nice seeing the happiness cross their face when they tell you about the things they know.
even if the answer is no, the answer might’ve been yes and it doesn’t hurt to ask every once in a while if you can do something or have something. i feel like as people, we don’t ask others for anything because we’re scared of rejection and the word no. but the best way to get over that fear is to hear it more
if you have a local coffee shop, go there and don’t drive to a starbucks or dunkin get a library card befriend your neighbors get plugged into the goings on of your town or city repeat local legends become friendly with your favorite store’s employees read in your local park patronize your local artists the way to plant roots is to stay in the same place for as long as possible! you don’t get that by driving out of town for every meal and beverage and thing you want
i stopped watching the H3 podcast and you know what i’m not going to do? replace it with another too long podcast. when i get rid of a shirt i don’t need to get a new shirt. purging is good and doesn’t need to be followed up by more consumption