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Watched a video by the YouTube channel ‘American School of Hypnosis” recently that talked about the profound effects of giving yourself a compliment every time you see your reflection.
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@zara
May 25, 2025
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@RendySprods
I saw a video where it said to "Hi Five" yourself in the mirror every morning since you only get/give them when something good happens and you are something good, it feels silly but I am doing it. I am something good, I just need my brain to know it also.
May 25, 2025
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@zara
@RENDYSPRODS im gonna start incorporating this as well thank you
May 25, 2025
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@softshelled
@RENDYSPRODS I reckon sometimes you’ve gotta brute force whimsy on yourself to recognise that you deserve the same kindness you instinctively give others y’know
May 31, 2025
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