Honestly, it all depends on how the breakup went. With my ex, we didn’t really get along at first after splitting, but after some space, we ended up on good terms. We both realized we had our own issues to own up to. I think it’s just a mature way to look at it. You liked something in that person once, so even if things didn’t work out, there’s no harm in staying cool with each other.
thoroughly planning a breakup so that you end that chapter with empathy and understanding instead of with anger and resentment in the heat of emotions. makes moving on and forward in life so much easier.
now also have a best friend who has seen me at my lowest and with whom i can share most every experience without judgement. only applicable if this individual is healthy enough to keep in ur life.
maybe more depending on the nature of the break up and their transgressions. then try to act normal. find out what you liked about them and develop those qualities in yourself
this is one of the few places online that actually feels good to use. I didn’t expect to enjoy it this much, but it’s thoughtful, chill, and way more human than the usual social apps.
I really believe our names shape our lives. not just what people call you, but how the world sees you, responds to you, reflects you back to yourself.
If mine was different, I don’t think I’d be the same person at all. maybe nothing around me would be the same either.
It sounds unhinged but I don’t care. and yeah, it keeps me up at night more than it should
Honestly, most people I know aren’t really thinking about it that deeply. Everyone’s just tired, and if AI helps get stuff off their plate quicker, they’re gonna use it.
