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I believe that beauty is a feeling of resonance. What we define as beautiful is not in the “beautiful” thing itself but instead in how it makes us feel. I think that this is the alignment of said beautiful things with your emotions, values, and memories to form feelings of comfort and pleasure. Whether this “something” be an image, a moment, person, or a sound, it should resonate with us . This is why I agree with David Hume about beauty being subjective. What resonates with one may not resonate with another because we all have unique experiences, perspectives, sensory sensitivities, memories, and desires. As Hume says, beauty is based on the sensations created by something - beauty is not something quantitative with a set criteria, but is instead an immeasurable interaction between self and the thing we feel is beautiful.
However, there are many things the vast majority of people would agree to be beautiful. The explanation for this can be found in commonly felt senses, emotions, and memories - or common resonances. In this belief, I agree with Kant (to an extent). The human mind works in certain ways in all people. Flowers, for example, are widely known as beautiful. The first reason for this is how they appeal to us through our senses. The bright colours and the (oftentimes) symmetrical shapes create a visual that feels pleasant and calming. The human brain finds comfort in symmetry. The sweet scents also add to the positive sensory experience. We make a judgement of a flower’s beauty based on the way, as Kant would say, our minds process these senses. Flowers are also oftentimes used as a symbol of congratulation, love, and gratitude. We see this in their use in graduation ceremonies, weddings, and birthdays. This can create feelings of positive resonance, which is what I define beauty as. Additionally, flowers are temporary - though their lifespans vary depending on the type of flower, cut flowers have an average lifespan of around 5 to 12 days.
I think that a limited time frame and rarity adds to what we perceive to be beautiful because humans are masters of adaptation. We become used to things quickly and easily. Even if the thing we find beautiful remains constant, we can become numb to it if we are around it all the time. It’s like a beautiful things supply and demand, of sorts. Rarity allows us to be hyperaware and remain sensitive to the beautiful things around us.
Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. Stay alert or you may miss all the beauty that surrounds you!
However, there are many things the vast majority of people would agree to be beautiful. The explanation for this can be found in commonly felt senses, emotions, and memories - or common resonances. In this belief, I agree with Kant (to an extent). The human mind works in certain ways in all people. Flowers, for example, are widely known as beautiful. The first reason for this is how they appeal to us through our senses. The bright colours and the (oftentimes) symmetrical shapes create a visual that feels pleasant and calming. The human brain finds comfort in symmetry. The sweet scents also add to the positive sensory experience. We make a judgement of a flower’s beauty based on the way, as Kant would say, our minds process these senses. Flowers are also oftentimes used as a symbol of congratulation, love, and gratitude. We see this in their use in graduation ceremonies, weddings, and birthdays. This can create feelings of positive resonance, which is what I define beauty as. Additionally, flowers are temporary - though their lifespans vary depending on the type of flower, cut flowers have an average lifespan of around 5 to 12 days.
I think that a limited time frame and rarity adds to what we perceive to be beautiful because humans are masters of adaptation. We become used to things quickly and easily. Even if the thing we find beautiful remains constant, we can become numb to it if we are around it all the time. It’s like a beautiful things supply and demand, of sorts. Rarity allows us to be hyperaware and remain sensitive to the beautiful things around us.
Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. Stay alert or you may miss all the beauty that surrounds you!
May 29, 2025
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⭐appreciating and acknowledging all of the beautiful people places and things around us memory may be fleeting but beauty is not
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The times when I start thinking about my body too much, I remember that I don’t really pay attention to other peoples bodies. It really doesn’t register to me. I don’t judge how other people look. Rather, I judge how I get along with them and the energy they give off. I truly believe that everyone has beauty.
I take care of my body’s needs. I have had to evolve as I have grown. I try to eat food that feels good and keep myself strong. I think that feeling strong is important to me. I wear clothes that feel good on my body and spend very little time in front of the mirror. I focus more on who I am as a person. Like the Roald Dahl picture attached, I think our inside shines outward. I’ve met “beautiful“ people who were ugly af.
My body has changed in a bunch of different ways since having my children. There’s always pressure to try to look how you did before having kids, but I think that is ridiculous. Every single thing about me has changed, why wouldn’t I want my body to reflect that growth as well?
It is helpful for me to think about all the people that I have loved in my life. Their stunning beauty in my eyes is not because they are perfect, but because of my love for them. I wouldn’t want them any other way then exactly who they are.
My body has changed in a bunch of different ways since having my children. There’s always pressure to try to look how you did before having kids, but I think that is ridiculous. Every single thing about me has changed, why wouldn’t I want my body to reflect that growth as well?
It is helpful for me to think about all the people that I have loved in my life. Their stunning beauty in my eyes is not because they are perfect, but because of my love for them. I wouldn’t want them any other way then exactly who they are.
Sep 29, 2024
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I think its beautiful that despite having beating hearts, ache, cells that divide, bleed, we have things that set us apart from the rest. Despite the fact we look for similarities when forming bonds, there will always be something to set the parties apart.
Take twins for example; the may be similar in the appearance department, but may differ to birthmark from the distance of eyes and even the slightest change of personality. Even this app for example; users can use the same emoji yet write something akin to that icon, have a reason to have chosen it among others and correlate it to a topic that resonates within them.
Maybe that's why im not very fond of the term 'there's plenty of fish in the sea'; sure there may be another tall guy if (hypothetically) my relationship came to an end, but would he be filled with fun facts? Have a love for building models, telling me things of planes and boats? Will he be gentle when he holds me in his arms, be able to turn me into putty? I don't think so.
Everyone has something that makes them tick, a passion, things that cauae a sick feeling in the pit of their stomach. We see beauty in things that others may not understand, have hobbies others may find weird, attend events that are to be obsessed over for days to come.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, opinions are formed from different perspectives, and no two decks of shuffled cards are alike.
Take twins for example; the may be similar in the appearance department, but may differ to birthmark from the distance of eyes and even the slightest change of personality. Even this app for example; users can use the same emoji yet write something akin to that icon, have a reason to have chosen it among others and correlate it to a topic that resonates within them.
Maybe that's why im not very fond of the term 'there's plenty of fish in the sea'; sure there may be another tall guy if (hypothetically) my relationship came to an end, but would he be filled with fun facts? Have a love for building models, telling me things of planes and boats? Will he be gentle when he holds me in his arms, be able to turn me into putty? I don't think so.
Everyone has something that makes them tick, a passion, things that cauae a sick feeling in the pit of their stomach. We see beauty in things that others may not understand, have hobbies others may find weird, attend events that are to be obsessed over for days to come.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, opinions are formed from different perspectives, and no two decks of shuffled cards are alike.
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