i have learned that, felt in its deepest momentsālove exists loudest when we give it permission to evade us. within that evasion, an admiration, an appreciationāa feeling of true, honest, vulnerable, raw loveāemerges.
maybe this is why we love people the most when we are separated.
maybe thatās why we love those most in a moment of grief.
maybe thatās why we love our children and inner child the most when they grow up.
but when we prevent itāwhen we prevent ourselves from loss we not only prevent ourselves from finding love but from love finding us.
just some thoughts