Rec | TELLING SOMEONE YOU WANT TO GET TO KNOW THEM

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telling someone you want to get to know them

Wanting to genuinely get to know someone without an agenda should be the new currency. Thinking someone is interesting and wanting to know a bit of their story is what makes this experience human. These types of exchanges are boosting the frequencyyyy. Listening without biased judgement is the most compelling you can be. I have learned I can't figure out who I am without other people.

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May 30, 2025

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