We are not gonna, as human yes we are attracted to the physic, blue eyes or brown eyes, fit or a bit bulky, good sense of fashion or casual, good haircuts etc …
But that is just an image that makes you interested (attracted) but does it make you stay ?
For me personally i tend to know the person before i “judge” that i am attracted to them, i don’t look for perfection or someone who is HOT, if you have a food hygiene i am interested.
Now what makes me stay is knowledge! Yes tell me when was the first tomato sauce made and who got the idea ! Which animal is related to a dinosaur! Feed me knowledge.
Emotional intelligence as well ! When a person understands that my “offline” moments are for me and nothing personal or when i just shut up which means i am drained socially and not just mad or smth
Yes ! Thats my type !
To feel seen !
Feb 27, 2025
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I like a slight shyness but i also like slight confidence
Unique piercings or tattoos are really attractive, or if they do their make up like art and not generically (is that a word?)
Unique noses, too! Or when one tooth is missing or their teeth are crooked, i think thats attractive.
Raspy or soothing voices, when they speak calmly and at ease
I love when a person has big people word vocabulary and knows how to use it. intelligence is really attractive, and it's cute sometimes when they do it in a ☝️🤓 way. When they know more than 1 language, aswell
God, when they have "grandma" hobbies like crocheting or baking, maybe even reading (Using grandma really loosely in this context)
This could go on and on
Jul 10, 2024
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someone honest in their passion, earnest and intentional in listening/speaking, can read me like a book and vice versa, someone i don't have to say anything to but who i never want to stop talking to, can overcome the fear of being venerable, and a freak to the core
visually i couldnt care tho i do have a thing about a good smile and teeth...gotta take care of em
bonus points if they also hate feta; great bonding opportunity + no likelihood of catchin strays mid post-meal make-out-sesh☝️
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I love a person who knows who they are and what they like and what they are good at, but also respects other people and is kind. I also have a dry sense of humor so people who can match that always get me. But this doesn't necessarily mean loud or outgoing, I have liked people who are and who are not.
I just feel like secure and confident is the hottest thing a person can be. Thoughtful and competent is a close second. People who can share the responsibility and help make a plan or make decisions. I don't know if it's just me but I feel like that's a rare quality, and it's nice to have someone be able and willing to put on the work to see you and have a good time.
Feb 26, 2025
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I can’t find the Creator and i am mad about it because i wanna credit the one who made sure to put this for free.
I’ve found this website RetroPrint where they show the details of how you can make a Windows 95 customised theme on your phone (with over 800 icons app to choose from 27 of them are already made for the modern apps like netflix twitter etc - some graphics for the widgets too And 3 sounds.)
Jan 30, 2025
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The fact that i can stay in bed warm with my phone or laptop and music in the background as i watch my favourite movies/series/youtube vids with a warm tea is simple enough to make me grateful for wherever i am today.
Worrying about what I should wear to work is a beautiful thing because it’s a privilege that sadly some people can’t afford :(
Complaining about to cook is a beautiful thing because someone somewhere sadly can’t even afford/have access to a simple bread piece.
Literally feeling the warmth of the sun while standing waiting for the bus is a beautiful thing to cherish and be grateful for.
Jan 11, 2025
If there is one style that literally calms me is stippling.
The endless dots, the slow process, the nuance effect, the final results.
I just love it and appreciate it even more when i spend hours/days to finish one.
Jan 13, 2025