it's always worth it. it's how love deepens, wounds heel, and resentments fade.
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{writing this in part to nudge myself to initiate a couple more ππ»ββοΈ}
Iβm almost 30 have avoided this most of my life you can skip the agony of not knowing by having THE conversation even if itβs kind of painful itβs less and shorter term than if you (i) stew and suffer in silence until the love or whatever becomes festering resentment
and then youβre hashing out childhood wounds and petty grievances and setting out all the obstacles in the light so you can face them together. Pretty nice human experience.
if you have to apartment hop at all (as is the way of this wretched modern life) get one of these. you'll use it maybe once a year and it will be your absolute favorite possession.
saw it some years back and it quickly became my favorite film. it's a romantic/wistful/feelgood piece that follows an eccentric tour guide around his daily life. he speaks in prose about beauty and being.
every time I watch it, my shoulders drop a little~
