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I really struggle with this myself. My mom says that being happy with your own company is the best thing you can do for it, but that always sounds like a cop out that gets you ready to settle to be alone for the rest of your life so idk.
Jun 23, 2025

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im very happy and entertained with my own company as i am a ✨wonderful individual✨ but alas humans are social creatures and eventually we need some sense of community and intimacy be it platonic or romantic
Jun 23, 2025
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@CHLOE_ also ur theme is to die for ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Jun 23, 2025
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@OKWETUU_FISH 100% agree that we need other folks. I’m such a weirdo that I’m unsure of how to even make the first step to become friends with others because I miss cues.
Jun 23, 2025
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@OKWETUU_FISH thank you very much for the compliment! spent way too much time customizing highly recommend.
Jun 24, 2025
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@CHLOE_ i find the best way to make friends with someone is to go up to them and ask if they want to be friends✨u can be awkward about it or be confident it doesnt matter usually works pretty well
Jun 24, 2025
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its a balance. As a fellow introvert, I relate to this push and pull between enjoying your own company and socializing. I think both nourish u. whenever I find myself indulging in too much alone time, i know it’s time to try and challenge myself to do the opposite. i feel it usually only takes one good conversation or interaction to feel sated
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i don’t know, but i’m certainly trying!
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i was the first grandchild/cousin, oldest sibling, weird kid etc etc so i know how to make the most of time by myself. and i do value my alone time! but i am very sick of people telling me that i need to learn to enjoy time by myself when i express frustration in not having many friends close by and/or interested in the same things as me.
most of my friends are long distance or simply enjoy different things than me. and thats fine! but it’s also fine for me to want to go to a concert with someone or go to a museum and have someone to talk about the art with. also it’s ok for me to want a romantic smooch or a held hand every once in a while. it does not mean i don’t love myself it just means i am human!

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But yeah, it was cool.
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