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It costs nothing. It is THE answer someone who shares difficult emotions and interpretations needs to hear.
Please give it to them.
They will feel a lot better.
Please don’t be rigid. Even if it is a wrong interpretaion.
Being empathic, whatever the fight, is the greatest way to be.
Jul 5, 2025
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🩹Because it’s good to do something about it when you feel bad about hurting someone! Feeling remorse can be such a gift if we choose to work with it towards healing
Oct 23, 2024
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❤️I had a conflict with someone earlier today. We were both wrong. Each had our share of sub-par behavior.
At first I didn't want to apologize, even though I knew I'd screwed up: I didn't want to do anything to distract them from their error.
But then I thought about it: what do I really want here? I want a relationship with this person. I don't want bad blood between us. I'd much rather have reconciliation and resolution than preserve my pride.
So I decided that I didn't care if they apologized or owned their stuff. I'd just focus on my side of it, worry about that only, and make sure my own slate was cleared.
And of course once I'd apologized then they did too. If I hadn't then who knows how long it would have been until reconciliation. So totally worth it.
It's sad that some friendships end or families splinter because neither person is willing to say sorry first.
At first I didn't want to apologize, even though I knew I'd screwed up: I didn't want to do anything to distract them from their error.
But then I thought about it: what do I really want here? I want a relationship with this person. I don't want bad blood between us. I'd much rather have reconciliation and resolution than preserve my pride.
So I decided that I didn't care if they apologized or owned their stuff. I'd just focus on my side of it, worry about that only, and make sure my own slate was cleared.
And of course once I'd apologized then they did too. If I hadn't then who knows how long it would have been until reconciliation. So totally worth it.
It's sad that some friendships end or families splinter because neither person is willing to say sorry first.
Oct 15, 2024
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⚖️can be emotionally laborious but it is almost always worth it imo. telling someone how they made you feel is an act of kindness both to yourself and to the person who made you feel shitty. people will often surprise you with their responses
Feb 17, 2024
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I don't care what other people think. I stop the car, turn on the headlights, and jump out to walk near the mist. There is no danger. Let's feel free to photograph nature when the conditions are perfectly aligned.
May 17, 2025
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🌷I am in a sobriety process and I tried for the first time not to drink during a supper with friends. I bought tulips instead of a bottle of wine and my host was so happy! I drank mineral water in a champagne glass and it was just as satisfying.
Plus, it’s very classy to bring flowers. I recommend it to everyone, sober or not.
Plus, it’s very classy to bring flowers. I recommend it to everyone, sober or not.
Mar 30, 2025
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👁when I am alone, I connect with other human beings trough their art. including illustrations, tv series, films, podcasts, youtube videos, books, etc.
this makes me feel as if I chill with somebody, i guess, but also, that I am a part of a community. bunch of small communities, actually.
The great thing about being alone looking and listening at all this content, is that nobody else knows wich creators you are chilling with. I love to keep a secret garden.
The great thing about being alone looking and listening at all this content, is that nobody else knows wich creators you are chilling with. I love to keep a secret garden.
Feb 26, 2024