1.) Shave my face. I’m never without facial hair, so if you see me without facial hair, know that I just had a relationship end. New beginnings, it’s just hair, it’ll grow back.
2.) Rekindle old friendships and strengthen new ones. I’ve gotta find community again, and I know these people have my back. Lean on them, but don’t ask for too much, you gotta get through this on your own (but not by yourself)
3.) Gym membership. Just trust. An hour a day makes a difference, gets you out of bed, gets the blood flowing. You’ll feel better. Maybe not happier, but better.
- optional steps include: the requisite maladaptive habits, maybe slightly heavier drinking, resuming smoking, getting right back into the apps. These are BAD, but understandable. Don’t rely on them. Checking their socials. RESIST the urge, it’ll make you feel worse.