almost like when a website or app buffers for a second n then immediately speeds up . i think day by day i take things fairly slow but i try not to turn down last-minute tasks / goals (i can lock in if need be) . but in overall i take my life pretty slowly and just focused on minute to minute , i can be super passionate on a day to day basis n i feel like that makes achieving my goals seem faster even if the process feels slow occasionally . idk if any of ts made sense lmao
I think I’m similar. After a long time thinking about doing something, I’ll jump in once I’ve made the decision. I don’t always make it to the decision point, tho
i have been consciously trying to do things more slowly, things that encourage slowness and hanging out, noticing, etc. the frenetic pace we’re all encouraged to keep up is defeating and i don’t like how quickly it makes my days go. i’m doing something the inefficient way today!!!!!
you don't really have to be efficient all the time. time management is a great skill to have, but sometimes it feels way better to slow down and take longer to do simple activities. the next time you need to go to the grocery store for just a few things, try to turn that 20 min trip into 2 hours instead! it's way more fun that way
If you’re anything like me, it eats me inside when I have so many things planned out for my day, I write it out in my journal, I’m like yeah I think an hour to clean the whole house makes sense. But sometimes time slips away from us here and there and maybe you undershot how much time things would actually take and there are only so many hours in a day. Sometimes you gotta take a step back and breathe, I always think back to this one quote from Atomic Habits by James Clear, “never miss twice”. It’s ok to miss a day if you’re trying to get into a new habit or you meant to finish that pesky thing that you never got around to, the key is to just pick it back up the next and you’ll find your footing again. That’s what builds momentum and gets you into the swing of things again. Ok bye love u, ur doing great sweetie 💗 (me to me 🙂↔️)
“men are constantly performing for other men”
“every man is a combination of all the cool traits he stole from all the cool women in his life“
”he has no lore without me”
“his music taste is nothing without mine”
“his new bitch is chopped“
“everytime i breathe my life goes x10 better than his“
