Like just doing them without even thinking about anything; jumping into the void am I right ahaha ahaj ahah
No like honestly I feel like there are things I want to do but I just think of them and then the things I just do without hesitating is when I feel proud of myself lmao
this feels like a big answer for this question but it’s true! I feel like I used to feel the most tortured when I thought I had done everything right and according to plan but things didn’t work out the way I thought (still feel tortured by this sometimes tbh). in a perfect world 1+1=2 but in this universe with nature and people and relationships 1+1 doesn’t have to be 2 and can be something different altogether. realizing that I was doing things hoping for a very specific endpoint and that I was miserable every time the process felt like it had all been for nothing when it yielded a different result was eye opening for me. these days I try to do feelings checks during the process so even if things don’t go the way I thought and the universe has a different gift for me, I’m at peace and happy I was on the journey anyway even if the end doesn’t look how I envisioned! truly have found more peace by trying to embody the belief that I don’t have any idea how things will go! (but also getting a gua sha and making a ritual out of moisturizing & doing a lil massage routine every night has helped!)
