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I canāt get away from the feeling that Iām too late for everything. I recently turned 29 and I feel like I just canāt hang with anything. Finances are a mess, social life is none existent and Iām loosing it with every new job I take thinking āthis 9-5 aināt that bad.ā Theyāre never bad, but they donāt entice. I loose interest in thing within days.
Idk, sometimes I want to do daring things like going super into acting or a sport but, I keep feeling like if im too late to do that or that if I had actually wanted to do those things that I would have had that spark of determination when I was a kid.
Idk, sometimes I want to do daring things like going super into acting or a sport but, I keep feeling like if im too late to do that or that if I had actually wanted to do those things that I would have had that spark of determination when I was a kid.
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š¢Life is fucking confusing, and every want comes with a doubt.
As far as I can tell, your 20s (Iām 27) are about cobbling together a life while wondering if you should blow it all up. And then someday, hopefully, you fall in love with yourself (or something) and that love becomes a foundation for everything else. I know people who have built things up and torn them down, people who have made irrevocable choices, people who are coasting. I want all of their lives, sometimes, because Iām sick of the choices I made. I think thatās just fear of commitment, and not taking good care of myselfābut who knows, maybe Iām about to make some choices for the plot.
The people who seem to have it all figured out may be crumbling beneath the surface (me irl). The ones I trust the most know how to look around and say āthere but for the grace of god go I.ā Youāre never too old to let whatever youāve been collecting slip through your fingers and choose again.
As far as I can tell, your 20s (Iām 27) are about cobbling together a life while wondering if you should blow it all up. And then someday, hopefully, you fall in love with yourself (or something) and that love becomes a foundation for everything else. I know people who have built things up and torn them down, people who have made irrevocable choices, people who are coasting. I want all of their lives, sometimes, because Iām sick of the choices I made. I think thatās just fear of commitment, and not taking good care of myselfābut who knows, maybe Iām about to make some choices for the plot.
The people who seem to have it all figured out may be crumbling beneath the surface (me irl). The ones I trust the most know how to look around and say āthere but for the grace of god go I.ā Youāre never too old to let whatever youāve been collecting slip through your fingers and choose again.
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šthey say that your twenties are your best years or whatever. it fucking sucks.
i feel sooo lost, and is super weird cuz i know the feeling and iāve been like this, i just thought it was all over. it feels like you go through puberty in a deeper level like for REAL.
i donāt like shit no more, and i canāt seems to find what i like or what i want to do with my life.
I JUST DECIDED TO CHANGE CARRER AFTER 2 or 3 YEARS INVESTED IN ADVERTISING?????? HELLO??
i canā, i feel like am running out of time. and i really donāt wan trot it to be up like hamiltonās. I feel a huuuuge weight on me right now and i canāt figure out how to get rid of it.
honestly when you are twenty-ish, it just sucks. nothing more just that; well so far that i know it does sucks.
this was supposed to be a super poetic paragraph of how your twenties are hard and incomprehensible, how you run and run trying to find your true calling and you keep on hearing a voice in your head āwhat makes you so special?ā and you just canāt help but wonder ādang, now am not unique? who the fuck am i as an individual?ā and explainig all the spiraling, but i canāt yet explain it. when is all over i will try to update you guys with a more in depth, detailed paragrapā¦..
i feel sooo lost, and is super weird cuz i know the feeling and iāve been like this, i just thought it was all over. it feels like you go through puberty in a deeper level like for REAL.
i donāt like shit no more, and i canāt seems to find what i like or what i want to do with my life.
I JUST DECIDED TO CHANGE CARRER AFTER 2 or 3 YEARS INVESTED IN ADVERTISING?????? HELLO??
i canā, i feel like am running out of time. and i really donāt wan trot it to be up like hamiltonās. I feel a huuuuge weight on me right now and i canāt figure out how to get rid of it.
honestly when you are twenty-ish, it just sucks. nothing more just that; well so far that i know it does sucks.
this was supposed to be a super poetic paragraph of how your twenties are hard and incomprehensible, how you run and run trying to find your true calling and you keep on hearing a voice in your head āwhat makes you so special?ā and you just canāt help but wonder ādang, now am not unique? who the fuck am i as an individual?ā and explainig all the spiraling, but i canāt yet explain it. when is all over i will try to update you guys with a more in depth, detailed paragrapā¦..
Mar 14, 2025
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šØIām about to turn 30 and idk if my 21 year old self would approve of where Iām atābut my 6 year old self sure as hell would!! I think a lot of life is finding your way back to Little You.
Being 21 is so so hard, and in college youāre first starting to see that you canāt judge your progress based on other people. Even though thatās how you were taught to judge yourself up until this point. The things you want now probably wonāt matter to you in a few years, and for me that would have sounded terrifying at 21. But that doesnāt mean the things you want now arenāt important.
You can think of it in terms of tattoos. If you get a tattoo at 16 itās not because you know it will represent you always and foreverāitās to commemorate a moment, a feeling of boldness you wanted to wear proudly. And down the line you donāt look at it with regret, but a softness for that younger part of you. Feel your feelings fully in this moment! Be bold with what you care about! Every age is special.
Practical advice: Try to listen to your body and not your head. Do I actually like how I feel spending time with this person? Am I going through the motions of this hobby because I think it will service something else? Does xyz come naturally to me, or does it feel forced? No action needed. This exercise isnāt about flipping your life upside down, just take notice of how your body feels in certain situations. Start to notice when youāre in fight or flight versus happy and free. Find the ease and follow it
Being 21 is so so hard, and in college youāre first starting to see that you canāt judge your progress based on other people. Even though thatās how you were taught to judge yourself up until this point. The things you want now probably wonāt matter to you in a few years, and for me that would have sounded terrifying at 21. But that doesnāt mean the things you want now arenāt important.
You can think of it in terms of tattoos. If you get a tattoo at 16 itās not because you know it will represent you always and foreverāitās to commemorate a moment, a feeling of boldness you wanted to wear proudly. And down the line you donāt look at it with regret, but a softness for that younger part of you. Feel your feelings fully in this moment! Be bold with what you care about! Every age is special.
Practical advice: Try to listen to your body and not your head. Do I actually like how I feel spending time with this person? Am I going through the motions of this hobby because I think it will service something else? Does xyz come naturally to me, or does it feel forced? No action needed. This exercise isnāt about flipping your life upside down, just take notice of how your body feels in certain situations. Start to notice when youāre in fight or flight versus happy and free. Find the ease and follow it
Jan 25, 2025
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