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Particularly at work where I have a life-long pattern of working myself to death then quitting because no one care and I’m not rewarded for it my extra efforts.
Jan 26, 2024
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Scary, but worth it.
Feb 16, 2024
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Trying to do this more in 2025. But actually listening to if i want to or can physically do what is being asked of me. it’s really hard i won’t lie, especially if you’ve not been allowed to put your needs first but im standing on me this year so going to keep at it.
Mar 5, 2025
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I am quick to say yes to someone who needs help without actually assessing if it will add unnecessary strain on me. Literally did it today, but it was a one time thing. Ongoing is where I really run into issues. I can’t really afford to do that as a working mom of two young kids- no one benefits if I’m stretched too thin.
Even if I think I’m being so clear, people will misunderstand me. We project things onto each other all the time. I can’t assume the other person is taking the time to self reflect. There are people that will dislike or even hate me even if I’ve done nothing wrong. There are people who will oppose me just to be opposition. I can’t take it personally (I still do 🙃)
Recognizing when I need help and asking for it. Just because I can do it myself, doesn’t always mean I should.
May 30, 2025
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It sucks for a long time and then it doesn’t suck quite so bad and you just keep doing it. I don’t know why I like it so much but I do.
Jun 11, 2024
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I’ve been volunteering at a Victorian cemetery since 2016. We plant era-appropriate flowers and plants in the grave of people who have been dead for 100-200 years. It’s such a peaceful, meaningful way to remember the long dead and interact with nature. also I’m certain I have ghost friends who are coming through for me on the astral plane.
Feb 16, 2024
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go on a journey by yourself! it feels good. home will be waiting for you when you are ready.
Oct 3, 2024