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And then completing it. Applies to "I am a person who will cook themselves a nutritious meal" etc. Not 100% effective, but makes me feel deeply determined when the scheme works.
Mar 18, 2024
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I believe this is what’s going to motivate me to put in the self work. If I can’t keep promises I’ve made to myself, what I say to other people can’t reach its full impact.
Make a list for my days
Do whats on the list
Becauseeeee
I love myself
There was some sort of mental block but im working through it. I’m not lazy. I just couldn’t do the mundane things??
But I made the appointments and I’ve fully completed my laundry in one day.
It’s as simple as just getting it done. I can do it later but than it’ll just never get done or I can put it on my day planner and get it done when I say I want to. Checking it off is satisfying.
Also not overloading my day with task is important.
Jan 17, 2025
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Sometimes I have to just jump up and down a bit and repeatedly tell myself I can do it (usually for completing boring tasks). It does help though!
Mar 13, 2025
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i like to organize my week on a sunday evening so i can start with the important things first. i know everything is important, but i try to do 1 or 2 easy/fast tasks in the beggining of the day so i can have that feeling of finishing something and than i'll focus on a bigger task that might take me a few hours/days.
Jun 2, 2024
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My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
Jun 8, 2024
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tough but worth it
Feb 25, 2025
Kind of a genre of medieval paintings, but confirms to me how horny people have always been and how we've always had to sublimate our desires into the dominant culture. It's so weirdly explicit and bizarre, and has so many layers in how it would have been used: a painting to look at, a page in a prayer book to speak as a script, a physical object to touch and venerate and meditate with.... like imagine people fingering this "wound" and being like, yes this is honestly totally about jesus. Crazy.
Aug 2, 2024