My friends and I started saying this so much as a bit in high school that it actually became a very powerful mantra for all of us. It’s a good reminder that there will be better days ahead when things are tough, and to appreciate life when things are going well.
Mar 25, 2024
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my friend said this to me after a long shitty day and it resonated
Jul 17, 2024
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lost music listening time, gained quality conversation
lost at love, gained someone infinitely more kind
lost familiarity and comfort, gained new experiences and confidence
lost my car, gained the pleasure of long walks
lost my friends, gained people who accept me no matter what
losing is all part of life, you can’t get anywhere or gain anything by being stationary. failure is a beautiful part of the journey of becoming yourself :)
Jan 15, 2025
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been working hard to internalize a quote i read online recently. it says “the time will pass anyway whether i handle it emotionally or not… how utterly pointless to suffer so much & still choose to be miserable”. reminds me of that old Seneca quote, Something about the man who worries before necessary, suffers twice. when things already suck, i still have the option to be happy & make things better for myself. i know it sounds easier said than done but many times I’ve found myself rejecting this notion when a little bit of kindness towards myself, a deep breath & some patience would’ve gotten me through. every Moment is an opportunity to turn things around & make myself happy. gratitude helps a lot w this. blurting This all out here coz i know it’s an idea ill soon forget once im actually in the throes of a tough time ⭐️
Mar 18, 2025
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Apr 28, 2024
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These are those unplanned, worn-in trails that come into existence from consistent use over time. I like how they represent a record of the way humans and animals interact with their environment, with some being wide and well travelled while others are overgrown and don’t see that much use; each one has a story! I think they’re a cool example of the ways in which we unintentionally shape nature while it shapes us right back. So take that desire path and push back against infrastructure imposed upon you (if you want).
I also just think Desire Path is a beautiful combination of words.
Apr 25, 2024
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Giving my favorite clothes the justice and honor they deserve by wearing them until I literally cannot anymore
(or maybe I’m just stubborn)
Mar 29, 2024