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no love will ever remain the same… as time goes on the initial feeling fades away, no more late night calls and all that stuff. but still you love this person and now you have to look for new ways and things to do to keep the spark going and alive. its a beautiful but a sad thing for me. because in some cases, some people could lose feelings, end things and “move on” or “find someone new”... doesnt really change anything to me because the same old cycle repeats itself. the first stage is always beautiful, but with time, it’ll probably fade away again. its weird
Jul 7, 2024
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sincere posting look away if ur not a lovestruck fool
sometimes i look at this man with so much love in my heart it feels like butterflies again. i have best friends, of course. i love them so much and they will be in my life forever. but in these moments i’m struck with the thought “you are truly my best friend.” in past relationships, i’d try to force that feeling. now, it really does just occur to me. i get so excited for forever with him. most days, it’s not like this. most days we’re just together and there’s no stress or worry about our relationship. we’re just two people together, happy and that’s that. i am so used to this kind of love, it’s become my normal. but some days, i am struck by how in love i am and how lucky i am.
the first time i realized this was forever, a part of me felt weird about that. i had to say goodbye to the part of me that loved first dates, first kisses, and the ‘will they won’t they.’ Forever was always what I was looking for, but when presented with it, I worried about never feeling that way again.
Anyway, I don’t get first date feelings now, and I’ll never kiss someone new. But this feeling is so much better. He’s asleep right now, and I cannot wait for him to wake up so I can spend another day laughing with him.
Jan 29, 2024
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Honestly I could be some type of ace so this might be absolute nonsense. But I have loved a couple people and it has felt different every time. And I feel like it also feels different when you're in love with someone who loves you back vs when they don't. The desire to be closer, wanting more and more of a person. But if you have them, feeling settled when they are around. For me the way I love every person feels different. So it's hard to compare and hard to describe. Maybe this means I haven't truly been in love with anyone at all. I feel like I have. The love I feel for my closest friends is still love. It's warm and bright. It makes you more present. You think of them more. Everything else fades into the background.
I wouldn't think about it too hard. There are millions of songs and stories and movies about it. But it's so case specific. You should just nurture the types of relationship and love that you have and that you want to keep. Explore what you feel a desire to explore. I get wanting a confidant and feeling lonely, you should look into queer platonic relationships maybe.
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I just saw someone say “who says true love can’t be fleeting?” And it honestly put what I view as “love” into a new perspective. That puppy love you get for a few weeks with someone before it fizzles out or whatever is still love!
I had an extremely loving friendship with a person years ago,I’d had known them for 10 years before we had a falling out and I haven’t seen them since. That relationship was still love though, and the impact it had on my life will never go away.
Jan 18, 2025
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two days ago there was like a festival in uni celebrating my country’s independence day. fast forward it was 7pm @ night and i was in the bus and no one was beside me on the seat. then she came and sat right beside me. gathered courage and talked to her… told her ive always thought she was cool and all 😭🥺. finally made an attempt. (p.s. this been my crush for like 11 months now 💀😭)
Oct 3, 2024
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i like someone beautiful for sure. and also smarter, someone that can teach or enlighten me on anything its soo attractive to me haha, i love the little beautiful intentional loving and caring details of someone its weird to explain lol
Jul 10, 2024
its a very beautiful series with a complex storytelling. plus it has a very striking imagery
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