One trick that's helped me is to focus on what I'm gaining instead of what I'm missing. Like, maybe you're catching up on that show you've been meaning to watch, or finally getting some alone time to recharge. That stuff's important too! Another thing – try to limit your social media time when you know you're feeling vulnerable to fomo. It's way too easy to fall into the comparison trap. And remember, there'll always be other chances to hang out and have fun. This isn't your last shot at a good time, I promise. Sometimes the chillest nights at home end up being the most memorable. So take a deep breath, do something you enjoy, and cut yourself some slack. Fomo's just your brain playing tricks on you. You're not really missing out - you're just doing your own thing. And have a speedy recovery!
Jul 18, 2024
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basically anything you've been thinking about trying out- DO IT NOW! breakups are always painful but from personal experience, the ones that hurt the least were the times where i had my focus set on what i really wanted to do but maybe didn't before because i was focused on the other person.
Apr 3, 2024
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it starts off as a distraction but honestly the best way is opening yourself up to finding love and fulfillment in other things/relationships (not always romantic!) Spend quality time with your friends and family, try new things like going to a new restaurant or cafe, maybe pick up a new hobby or hobby you previously left behind. As you make room for these new things, the space this person took up in you will naturally get smaller and less noticeable until you’ll realize you rarely think about how much you missed her.
I’m sorry you’re feeling this way but all things truly do pass 💕
Apr 20, 2024
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short-term, i think you need to focus on getting through this “hang-out” (whether that be “pre-gaming” beforehand or simply distracting yourself) then evaluating what you even want with this guy (friendship or dating, etc.). next, stop yourself the next time you find yourself spontaneously making plans or joining in on them. if you have a habit of canceling/flaking on people, then it’s probably a good idea to stop going out with other people for a little while.
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The best advice I've found, especially as a perfectionist. As someone who always strives for flawlessness, I've realized this mindset can often hold me back. It's easy to get caught up in making everything just right, but that can lead to never finishing projects or, worse, never starting them. This advice reminds me to focus on completion rather than perfection. It's about making progress and not letting the fear of imperfection paralyze you. You can always refine and improve something once it exists, but you can't improve what you haven't created yet. It's about striking a balance between quality and actually getting things done
Jul 17, 2024
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My grandpa once told me:
"Live a worthy life. What makes a life worthy is something only you can define for yourself. So, live a life that feels meaningful to you, as long as it does not prevent others from living theirs. Don't let others define what a worthy life means for you. If for you, a worthy life means building a large family, build it; if it means earning a billion dollars, pursue that goal with all your might; if it means making as many memories as you can, go ahead; if it means being religious and praising God, do so. Live your worthy life and ignore anyone who tells you otherwise."
I couldn't find this quote anywhere so I think it was his own wisdom. Rest in Peace grandpa❤️
Jun 8, 2024
