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No problem getting to work/important appointments on time but any leisure or social plans? Expect me to show up fashionably (some would say frustratingly) late.
Jul 18, 2024

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i used to be very hurt by lateness, it felt disrespectful and unkind and inconsiderate of my time and effort. i think it was also reflective of other tension in that particular friendship. until i started being the consistently late person 😭 luckily iā€˜m friends with a bunch of consistently late people so we’re all on the same page now lol. still, i would recommend checking in with the people in your life to make sure your lateness is not taking a relational toll.
Jul 18, 2024
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capyboppy the relational toll should be considered for sure…y'all have given me a lot to think about!!
Jul 19, 2024
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I condone this
Jul 18, 2024
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tres chic
Jul 18, 2024
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This made me SO ANGRY, hahahaha. Please please please show up on time 😭 Speaking as someone who legitimately feels like their whole flow of the day is messed up when someone runs late 😭 Imagine me crying 😭
Jul 18, 2024
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marianoleonczik 🫣 I know I know!! It’s a sickness! Why do we hurt those we are closest to?! In my defense I will say…everyone knows they will be granted generous grace from me should the tables be turned and they are late.
Jul 18, 2024
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plouderb literally crying and throwing up as I read this
Jul 18, 2024
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