I hate clothes. That’s only a little bit dramatic. I feel like I go through them fairly often but still have too many. I go through phases where I buy things outside of my norm thinking I’ll wear them- I don’t. I go back to the same old stuff. I also am in my second postpartum in 3.5 years so I’m hanging on to stuff because my body is slowly shedding fat it’s holding on to due to breastfeeding. I’m in no rush to wean but I’m looking forward to fitting into some of my favorite jeans again. I know the timeline this time around so by the time my now 7 month old is 2 years old I’ll be back to my pre pregnancy self (if I don’t really exercise).
Oct 23, 2024
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I love being an outfit repeater. I love when my clothes start to feel roomy & slouchy. I love when I notice the fabric color fading. I love when my jeans fray & the denim starts to break open on the knees. I love it when my clothes show that i’ve lived.
Jan 18, 2025
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Because I already own so little I have a pretty bare-bones minimalistic lifestyle and probably have way less stuff than the average person. I don’t really buy things very often and I’ve always purged my possessions regularly, giving away whatever i didn’t have a need for. I’m kind of against selling things I’ve already bought and used it feels greedy to me.
I’ve tried but I don’t have enough hustle in me to sell on Poshmark or Depop so I recently sent multiple pairs of Rag & Bone shoes and boots to the thrift store (has anyone else had to RECKON WITH your delusional belief that your feet were smaller than they were? I don’t even want to say what size mine are) + lots of gorgeous clothes that no longer fit me because I was convinced that I would never lose enough weight to fit into them again but now that I have I’m like damn I wish I had my clothes back.
Anyway I literally can’t think of one thing I have that I shouldn’t? Maybe the low-cut socks I bought at Costco recently before I remembered that I stopped buying these socks at Costco years ago because they SLIP like CRAZY and I’m filled with rage every time I wear them. But I will probably just stay with them until they fall apart because I’m too cheap to buy more.
Oct 23, 2024
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When I was a wee twiggy girl approximately aged 16-23 I would just buy whatever I could find at thrift stores that was especially weird or interesting and didn’t have to think about what it looked like because I could just slap things together and look cute and quirky. As I’ve aged I’ve developed a gourmand tendency towards indulgence and, consequently, a figure a little more like Marilyn Monroe (not in the way a lot of women say it—no offense and bless them for living their truth—I’m speaking objectively) so my focus is like purely on finding clothes that fit me structurally that have very particular shapes silhouettes and details. I’m also careful about finding clothes that fit within an autumnal color palette to suit my complexion. I generally won’t buy clothes if they’re not made of natural fibers and if I’m thrift shopping or on poshmark I keep an eye out for pieces from designers I love. I look for things that fit with my well loved staple items and only buy something if I really love it because I don’t like to have a lot of stuff anymore. I love lush textures and fabrics for winter like velvet and fur
Sep 13, 2024
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For some reason this brings me into my parasympathetic nervous system
Mar 28, 2025
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Humans have always danced. It is part of who we are, yet we have been conditioned to be self conscious, to think that we do not move our bodies good enough. Dancing is beyond judgement. Dancing is not a skill, it is our soul moving through our bodies, expressed in movement. Dancing is healing. Dancing is bodily autonomy. Dancing is FUN! Any feeling you are feeling can be moved through with dance yet even alone, you fear looking foolish. Kill the judge in your mind, shut the fuck up, and MOVE 🌊
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FINDING SOMEONE ANNOYING AND IMMEDIATELY REALIZING IT’S BECAUSE THEY REMIND YOU OF YOUR YOUNGER SELF
OH BROTHER THIS GUY actually needs a lot of empathy and understanding
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