Otherwise the standard advice is to take something you like to do, and start doing it with other people.
I have no experience with this, but it just might work!
Nov 12, 2024
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It's mentioned in the other replies but seriously take yourself out! Come up with your own adventure that's niche to your city and your people and your interests and go from there! I snuck out a lot in highschool when I struggled with fomo. Gave me the thrill I seeked and some good lunch time lore to share with friends.
May 25, 2025
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If you're in your city for school or work, it's easy to get into conversation with someone. The good old water cooler talk can lead to friendships. If you're more introverted all i can say is try to step out of your comfort zone. Even if it's hard, a small thing can have huge effects.
Maybe if you have a specific hobby, like a sport, you could join a club or workshop. You'll definitely meet like minded people every where.
Oct 3, 2024
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Allegedly peoplemeet in the real world while doing things. Take a class like yoga or cooking or pottery, join a group related to your interests, go to events, etc. have fun!
May 1, 2024
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