Rec | BE THE PERSON GOING OUT

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It's mentioned in the other replies but seriously take yourself out! Come up with your own adventure that's niche to your city and your people and your interests and go from there! I snuck out a lot in highschool when I struggled with fomo. Gave me the thrill I seeked and some good lunch time lore to share with friends.

@themostuniqueuserever

May 25, 2025

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