1. You are not alone.
2. Build up your self worth. So when you are engaging with your friends / other people they get to see the real authentic you. being comfortable with yourself takes time but its worth it.
3. If fear of losing someone is holding you back and you find that you're pretending to be someone you're not... try and be your full authentic self. if they reject you, they arent your ppl.
4. sometimes we are isolated for a small time so that we can be more comfortable spending time with alone and having fun doing it. one season of my life i learned how to knit. This is your chance to explore and try something new. You may meet your people in the process ๐๐ซ
Feb 26, 2025
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i take my friendships v seriously so friend breakups are basically the worst thing everrr last year I lost all my friends at once and it oooooo hurt me sooo baddd๐๐ปmy mom has reminded me time and time again that people come into your life for a season and reason. the majority of the time relationships end there is a lesson to learn and sometimes the pain of ending the relationship is necessary for the next best thing to come into your life. i learned to not take it personal because I know that I'm a good person and friend and its a shame that old friends couldn't see that, but thats not my thing. you can only focus on yourself and finding things to fill your time!!! #ThisTooShallPass <3
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So much of us can get lost in the relationship with others that we can give up parts of ourselves. Do those things again that you once did before you met 'what's-their-name'?
Look in a mirror and speak to your flection as a friend. Giving yourself the advice and support as a friend to yourself.
The longest relationship that you will ever have is with with yourself. Show up. Tell yourself the truth. Be authentic. Be yourself. Love and support yourself.
Feb 10, 2024
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I donโt mean fully by yourself, but foster one on one connections and do things that fill you up outside of a friend group.
I lost my whole friend group after college and it really wrecked me and continues to do so (not as much as before). Even when I was friends with them I felt that I was the odd one out.
When youโre able to find friends outside of a group, you learn a lot about your own values and about who is really looking to connect. Try not to get discouraged !! <3
Jan 21, 2025
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Growing up my mom always said "always have your mini skirt and high heel boots ready."
Rewatching The Nanny I see where she may have gotten it from.
Fran Drescher is a timeless style icon. A sexy appeal that wasn't too much in your face and yet still possesed that allure.
Feb 25, 2025
Film needs to make a comeback. Dark rooms, chemicals, film reels.
I know polaroids are common nowadays but lets bring back disposable cameras, 35mm pocket cams, kodak developing centers at cvs.
(Polaroid I took at a photoshoot 5 years ago.)
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