i take my friendships v seriously so friend breakups are basically the worst thing everrr last year I lost all my friends at once and it oooooo hurt me sooo baddd👎🏻my mom has reminded me time and time again that people come into your life for a season and reason. the majority of the time relationships end there is a lesson to learn and sometimes the pain of ending the relationship is necessary for the next best thing to come into your life. i learned to not take it personal because I know that I'm a good person and friend and its a shame that old friends couldn't see that, but thats not my thing. you can only focus on yourself and finding things to fill your time!!! #ThisTooShallPass <3
2d ago
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Despite being the person who pushes people away, I always have a good enough reason. I so strongly believe your circle defines who you are before it was packaged as a self love affirmation. It seemed very obvious as a concept.
Anyways, I had a huge group of friends and cut of all but 2 because of a silly fight which had nothing to do with me since I've always believed in quality over quantity. But this decision proved to be so wrong when the two who are dating btw, became druggies and really shitty friends. So much so that my mom warned me about them. I have now opened my eyes and really understood the depth of how much I blindly trusted them and how they fucked my life over. Maybe they meant it, maybe they didn't but I am so not gonna stick around to find out. I am a leaver. Bye bye bitch. I just can't believe I let it get to this point. Sorta disappointed how I am not as adult as I thought I was.
Apr 20, 2025
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People change people grow apart and that’s ok. As someone with a lack of emotions permanence it’s already hard for me to recognize that people care about me unless I’m reminded 25/8 and while I’ve worked on that and can now remind myself that people care for me; it’s somehow even harder for me to realize when that it’s ok if people are growing apart from me. It’s inevitable. People growing apart from you is not a personal failure sometimes it’s just HAPPENS. Schedules change, distance change, levels of concern change, and that’s ok.
I remember shortly after highschool ended a girl tried to poke fun at me for the fact that i “change” friends often (I have several 6+ year friendships but that’s besides the point LOL) but the truth is that I’ve always known when to let friends go and do their own thing. All of that is to say that life moves forward your circles change and you’re wasting time that you could be using to build stronger/new connections on things that have passed their course.
Mar 13, 2025
1. You are not alone.
2. Build up your self worth. So when you are engaging with your friends / other people they get to see the real authentic you. being comfortable with yourself takes time but its worth it.
3. If fear of losing someone is holding you back and you find that you're pretending to be someone you're not... try and be your full authentic self. if they reject you, they arent your ppl.
4. sometimes we are isolated for a small time so that we can be more comfortable spending time with alone and having fun doing it. one season of my life i learned how to knit. This is your chance to explore and try something new. You may meet your people in the process 💚🫂
Feb 26, 2025
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Relationships seem to be a big theme on this social media platform ! And I’ve seen a lot of great advice for dating!! On Sunday I met this hella cute girl through my friend’s friend and I was so nervyyyy I didn’t ask for her number or talk one on one much… I talked with my friend’s friend and we exchanged instas (big fan of getting people instagrams then never seeing eachother ever again but follow forever) and i happened to find cute girls insta… i am going to message her today and shoot my shot 🫣 #nerveracking I’ve only been in one relationship — started at 16, lasted for 5yrs, ended a year ago — so I’ve been single for a year and first time making a move with anyone let along pretty girl ! (Ex was man…)wish me luck if it doesn’t work out I’ve learned to love ‘oh wells’ so we shall see 🤭
May 27, 2025
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i used to be terrified of karaoke!!!😅 i never sang and was scared I'd embarrass myself.. it wasn't until this year I decided to not care about what others thought! it doesn't matter! Nobody cares but me.. its not that serious!!!🤣 so proud of my drunken performance of Iris by the goo goo dolls 😎it suckedddd but the crowd cheered anyways! life is so much fun when you're living for yourself😇
4d ago
I don’t know why this is so funny to me I quote it so often nobody ever knows what I’m referring to 😭if I’m the oldest in the room I’m the 56 year old woman… if you’re older then me it’s you
Jun 3, 2025