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going to be single again for first time in a while later today. how do you guys move past things? even if im are happy about things ending, frustration, mourning, annoyance, and a plethora of emotions are still so present. how do you balance life and get things done in times of emotional upheaval?
Mar 2, 2025
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It’s a blessing when big changes come all at once. The absence of the relationship won’t be a hole in the life you had because you’re going to have a new one! Let yourself get caught up in all the adjusting you’ll be doing—moving, new friends, job search, gigs. Process, live the pain, etc. but in moderation… It’s harder to move on and look forward to change when intense loneliness/inactivity feels like a sign that things would be so much better if you were just together again. Enjoy, build up a network of care. Lean on your friends and family A LOT. Prioritize seeing the people who love you. Get on a plane or a bus or whatever you have to do, it is essential to get quality time with the beloveds during this period of loss and transition. Speaking from experience lol xoxoxo good luck <3
Jun 18, 2024
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there’s so many different things going through your mind when a breakup happens and i don’t think there’s this one thing that will make it go away faster, but you can try focusing on yourself and things you like...you can find new hobbies, new friends, new places!
Cause yeah, you’re single now and it kinda sucks but it wont suck forever lol
idk what im saying, but bottom line is it gets better the more you put love towards yourself instead of them, you’ll realize how much more you deserve.
Go crazy🫨🫨
Apr 9, 2025
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6 year relationship. It’s been 8 months since the split. Seen him recently and he seems to have moved on faster than me. Makes me question some things but overall I wanna be over it already. I need useful Advice for moving past this sadness. NOW
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IM ALMOST DONE WITH MY THESIS AHHHH. I have over 140 citations for the 45 pages, and will likely have a bibliography over 200 sources. due in 2 days but still so much to do actually gonna die.
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Apr 17, 2025
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i think it’s ok to be boring. to not have anything special unique or interesting going on. i tell myself to find the part of me that i lost - the part i thought was more fun or intriguing or cool, but maybe you lose parts of yourself for a reason. maybe what i’m doing now, the things that make me happy, are the things that are boring. maybe when you tell yourself that what is boring or wrong, you only make the imposter feeling stronger. sometimes i think all you need is someone to think the things you like are cool, no matter how boring or uninteresting they may be. how boring can you or it really be if it makes you happy, and if it gives you meaning.
Feb 16, 2025