Quirks, Mannerisms, Peculiarities. that is you, embrace them and be an individual, smooth them out and become part of another one’s perception. Your move.
Your differences make you interesting and owning your quirks makes you more confident than hiding them. Keep your kindness, be proud of it and use it often. Don't diminish yourself just to please others. They know just as much or as little as you do.
That thing is your style. Probably it’s still raw, which is why others don’t see what you see. Refine your thing, your idiosyncrasy. Sharpen it but don’t smooth out all the rough edges, these are what stick in people’s brains. Be inelegant. Be brave.
Really ? You can’t do this alone ? You need support ? You need comfort ? You need help ? Company ? You feel guilty for being needy ?
Is that how you treat yourself ? What a foolish belief. Did you just scrutinize your need for another ? Is that fair ? To anyone ? Ever ?
on which leverage did you allow yourself to believe I owed you to be the same as you always knew me. Interesting how the selfishness unfolds like the knots on my back you got used to seeing curved. Isn’t anymore.
