ix of swords reversed - be gentle with yourself 🥲 if you’re in your head a lot or overthinking things constantly, work on skills that help you not do that. be realistic with what you’re accountable for and what has been beyond your control. make sure you’re practicing enough self care :)
all my favorite people are fundamentally curious, and it’s also one of my favorite things this community encourages. it’s so boring and sad to be incurious! ask questions! listen to the answers! thank goodness we’re all here!
if it wont jeopardize your survival fund just do it you deserve it
find an excuse that you think they’ll pity, they don’t need to know that you ‘just need a day’ if they are toxic capitalists -
i say this to every inanimate object that isn’t doing what i expect it to do.
tone:
middle ground between hoity toity annoyed bitch and genuine concern of ‘are you there?’